Marriage before taking sex counselling??
Not a good idea!! You never dealt with a woman before, she is going to have her first experience on lucky day. If this is not the case then don't worry and go head to beat the heat. For rest of the folks below tips will definitely gonna help.
Only few months are left for marriage. You already starting building a new relationship with your fiancé. How to take it further to have a successful sexual life after marriage? Let us talk in detail about that.
1. Start with Soft love relationship –
Don't tell her your hard moments initially. Start developing a good interactive love relationship with her. Either direct one to one talk or just telephone talk, let there be fun, love, mutual interest and happiness. Understand each other, remember her positives, don't stress on negatives.
2. Do not overhype –
While talking to her, cut a few jokes about herself and be nice human. Generally those guys who doesn't get girl before marriage have habit of making fun of them. Show her your good side. Do not pose as a superman. It may create unreachable expectations.
3. Start telling her the real you-
Never ever tell her about your past but tell her the detail about your family members, their nature, and how she can cope up with them. She should also be aware of your financial condition. This helps to avoid hype and overspending after marriage.
4. Consult a gynecologist together –
If possible, both of you visit a gynecologist and have a sexual counselling and also get knowledge about which contraceptive method to adopt etc. If she or you are struggling with timming, nightfall or any other issue talk to your doctor, without hesitating. As it is good time to improve on that part. (You can get lot of information from internet as well).
5. Masturbation –
Before marriage masturbation was your way of exhibiting your sexual desire. But from this point onwards stop doing that and start picking up your stamina. Anyways after marriage, you'll automatically get rid of this habit because you will do actual sexual intercourse then. There will be little effort required to get adjusted but everything will fall in place after first week of struggle.
6. Dance before romance-
It is always a good advice to set the right mood before the fun begin. And if you get chance to come closure to her with light music then nothing like it. Always be prepared for the classy dance steps. Schedule an excuse to practice that choreographed first dance!
7. Seduce her!
Sex kills stress, and it'll take the edge off of the wedding night in case the reception goes all night.
8. Time for first night? Do not overhype -
Most of us will be waiting for this day since our childhood. But remember she is going to be with you forever. So don't throw your years of lust on very first night. First night should be to just initiate physical intimacy. It may or may not lead to sex depends on situation. If she wants to talk before game begins then respect her decision. But if you go for it then do not try hard to get success in the first attempt. You have to believe that you may not get success in the first attempt and the fact is 65% of the male in this world doesn't get success on their first attempt. Doesn't matter who she is. So be cool about it. No one rides a bicycle on his first attempt. To avoid embarrassing situation, convey this message to her well ahead. And don't worry, everything will go fine within a week time.
9. Take Ayurvedic help –
Ayurveda explains a few medicines and therapies that help improve sexual power. Consult your doctor for the same.
10. Adjusting your lifestyle –
Till this time, You were a free eagle flying wherever you want to. But you will have to adjust for a better healthy lifestyle from now on. Stick to regular work, sleeping time, diet etc. Be generous with your body parts.
Got questions?? Post in comments. You are not mean. Don't forget to share it with your Unmarried friends.
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